Does it ever feel like you are in your own way when you want to talk to a girl who you want a little more from than just chat? Does it ever feel like you can’t put yourself out there, can’t take the risk, yet you’re fed up of just talking to girls – it’s time to start standing out from the crowd, but for some reason you can’t put your finger on exactly how to do it. Does it ever feel that you are your own worst enemy?
It is you getting in your own way, but you’re doing it for the right reasons – your subconscious is keeping you safe. The subconscious is rarely interested in taking risks, it likes to maintain the status quo – so long as you have everything that you need to survive, it will work to keep you there in case you risk losing something that you need to survive. If you have been single for a long time and are not happy but cannot seem to do anything about it, my Village metaphor explains why – it is because to do anything else will change your life and your subconscious may not be prepared for that.
As a hypnotist working in Worthing in Sussex, I can use that desire you have to be more confident around girls, or boys or be more confident around people and in relationships in general to free your from The Village, to talk directly to your subconscious and tell it that it is sometimes better to take risks and to focus on the rewards rather than the possible failures. This will give you confidence without alcohol in all social situations so that you can stand out from the crowd and be more appreciated for who you are at work or in the eyes of a potential lover.